There is a difference between an excuse and an explanation.   An explanation is designed  to give someone all of the facts, and lay out the cause for something. An excuse is designed to push the fault for that thing away from oneself.   Make sure that you use explanations frequently, and excuses sparingly.   … Continue reading Excuses and Explanations →

So you want to be a better communicator! What does that even mean?   Part II - the tough stuff. Here are some tougher, but possibly more productive steps you can take to be a better communicator.   Take more time before speaking Most conversations happen really quickly – we hear something, we formulate our … Continue reading Learning Communication – Part II →

So you want to be a better communicator! What does that even mean? Part I - How to Begin Well, let’s start with your motivation. Why do you want to be a better communicator?   A few of the reasons that folks have reached out to me in the past include: You want to have … Continue reading Learning Communication – Part I →

In an ideal world, we’d all be experts at communication and setting boundaries from a very young age. Our parents, teachers, and peers would respect our words and provide positive reinforcement each time we took a stand, and we’d grow up knowing what we’re comfortable with and what we’re unsure about, and how to enforce … Continue reading Teaching Communication →