Tag: coercion

On Being “Seducible”

On Being “Seducible”

In my post on the difference between enthusiastic consent and explicit consent, I mentioned that in long term relationships, people sometimes have motivations for sex other than libido. People have sex to build intimacy, try to get pregnant, release stress, for relationship maintenance… There are a ton of reasons to get up close and personal … Continue reading On Being “Seducible”

It’s Time to Talk About Age Gaps

It’s Time to Talk About Age Gaps

You guys, it’s time to talk about large age gaps in relationships. Specifically, when men in their 30s and 40s date woman* in their late teens and early 20s.  Let's break down why it happens, why it can be dangerous, and best practices, if you do end up in a relationship like that. I do, … Continue reading It’s Time to Talk About Age Gaps